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Yes, I know, we shouldn’t judge each other, we should all be comfy cozy, blah, blah, blah… but let’s be honest. I judge. You judge. We all judge each other.

The funny part is that it starts within. We all judge ourselves. Which makes me wonder, am I judging or simply comparing, learning, taking notes?

When I look at another woman and think, “you’re a stay at home mom and you’ve never bothered to spend any time in school with your little one” part of me thinks, you don’t know what she has going on in her life and the other part of me thinks, I’m a good mom. On the other hand when I think, “I hate her, she’s so organized” I’m also taking notes on how I can improve to become more organized.

My point? I don’t have one, so judge me. And remember, if they’re not talking about you, you’re doing something wrong.



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Culturally ambidextrous renaissance woman. Mom, wife, daughter, entrepreneur, blogger, shiny and fabulous, just like home! Find out more at

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  1. Hola ,Elma, te sigo en Twitter , eres muy divertida , humana y enseñas muchas cosas, bien hecho ,niña.
    Lo malo no es juzgar a otros ,lo malo es equivocarse cuando se juzga porque tienes que escoger y cuando escoges te pasa como al rey de Francia cuando decía : “… cada vez que proveo una plaza creo 100 descontentos y un ingrato.” …que nadie va a quedar contento.
    Eso es la vida ,escoger,elegir; y como el mismo Jesús (el Cristo:el anunciado) se equivocó, ya que tuvo que escoger a 12 y mira como le salió uno de ellos (Judas) pues imagínate ¿ qué no haremos los demás?
    ¡¡ Simples humanos !! …yo juzgo y si me equivoco ,me arriepiento,al que le guste que mire y al que no le guste , ya sabe: ¡¡Ancha es Castilla!! y ahora vuelvo a mi programación de sockets…¡¡tan aburridaaaaaaaa!!


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